Thursday, 13 October 2016
Ladies! Doing Any Of These Things Will Not Make Any Man Respect You
It is no news that we are in an era where women are no longer respected because of the way they throw themselves at men.
There are so many bad eggs in the society, this has made most of the men think women are the same and can be treated as one.
We do not need to sing or chant the praises of women before you know how important they are in the society. The roles they play can never be over-emphasized irrespective of the things they do.
It is disheartening to know that many men have little or no regard for the women in their lives due to their past experiences. Some women in truth do not know how to comport themselves in a gathering.
They end up doing silly things that will make the world abuse the gender and what they stand for. No matter how much people rant for change, women will continue to be abused until they stand up and prove themselves as dignified entities.
You do not fight for respect after all, you earn it! If you want to be treated differently from the girls flocking the streets, then you have to act differently. Add a twist to your life and personality and those who meet you will respect you.
If you do any of the things below as a woman, no man will respect you:
1. You are a puppet
If you do not have a mind of your own as a woman, no man will respect you. No one is asking you to be stubborn and defiant when being talked to; however, there are ways you can express your opinion without stepping on toes.
Men appreciate women who have minds of their own and can take decisions without being pushed around.
2. When you do not have a life of your own
There are so many women in the society who live based on people’s instructions. They have no life plans and cannot tell which direction to turn.
Unfortunately, many of these women are being led astray as they succumb to peer pressure most times. Men have little or no regard for women who do not have life plans and goals. They see them as chaff that could be blown away.
3. When you are a drunk
Honestly, that is the height of being irresponsible. How can you expect a man to respect you when the other ladies around cannot praise you for your actions? No man will speak highly of a woman who is a drunk.
There is simply no way you can be respected when you cannot caution yourself when you drink. You know what you have to do if you are found wanting in this situation.
4. When you are loose
Men will always be men; if you think you are dancing to their tunes by doing the things you do, you may end up being a joker.
As much as a man will want to get down with you on a first date, you have to be self-disciplined. If you jump into his bed without hesitation, you have failed the first test of chastity.
5. When you have lots of tales about your ex
Some things are worth burying in the past. Even though transparency is a key element in relationships, you have to cut out certain things.
No man will respect if you keep replaying the soiled parts of the failed affair.
How exactly do you want him to accord you any respect when he has known all there is to know about you? Add a little mystery to your life.
6. When you pretend
No one can do you like you! There is dignity in being real. You do not have to pretend to be someone you are not because you want some guy to like you.
Men will appreciate you more when they know how principled you are. Do not be afraid to show them your imperfections, we are all flawed after all.
7. When you are not ladylike
There are no two ways to put this, if you actions cannot reflect the lady in you, you are as good as lost. Men love and respect women who are represent the gender in every way. They admire them the more when they record successes in their chosen fields. They want to see the lady in you irrespective of how independent you have become.
8. When you are a liar and a flirt
No one respects a liar and a flirt, there is no way you can make a man respect you if you do any of these two things.
You cannot be seen frolicking with men and expect that you will be praised by them.
Even when you have lots of guys as friends, you should be able to draw a limit. Be known for whom you are, avoid lying as this can paint you the wrong way.
“I Can’t Be Bothered” – Omawumi Replies Comments That She is Fat
Lol, Singer Omawunmi is tired of people calling her fat. She came online this morning saying she has accepted herself and her body and wants people to leave it like that.
See what She wrote below;
This is my b**ch resting face… Which can also mean ‘honesty, I can’t be bothered’.
I have come to own and accept the real me, when/if I have to change my body, I may do it.
So till then this my response to ‘Omawumi is fat’. So I’ve added a few kilos, Omawumi is beautiful Jare!!!
#wonderwoman #omawonder #ownit #timeless
Honestly, most people should also accept themselves the way they are.
Jigawa Passes ‘No HIV Test, No Marriage’ Bill Into Law
Jigawa State House of Assembly has passed a bill which makes it mandatory for all intending couples to undergo test for HIV/AIDs, twice, in the last three months, before marriage is contracted.
Making this known at yesterday’s plenary, Chairman of the Committee on the control of HIV/AIDs, Ibrahim Suleman Gwiwa,
noted that the bill intended to provide free and compulsory HIV/AID test before marriage, as well prohibit all forms of discrimination and stigmatisation against people living with the virus.
Gwiwa said the bill became imperative following the widespread of the killer disease among couples in the state.
He explained that in the bill, Sharia and Magistrate Courts would have jurisdiction to try HIV/AIDs related offences and added that, on the other hand, Association for People living with HIV/AIDs and State Agency for the Control of AIDs would be deployed for enforcement at all levels.
“Intending couples should submit themselves together to the same facility and the result should be open to them by the counsellor at the same time.
“Tests should be done twice, three months and two weeks to the marriage and the bill indicates that Shariah and Magistrate Courts in the state have jurisdiction to try offences under the law.”
Presidency To BBC Hausa,- Do Not Broadcast Aisha Buhari’s Revealing Interview
The BBC Hausa Service is under intense pressure from President Buhari and members of his cabinet not to air the recent interview granted by his wife, Aisha Buhari, which is due for broadcast on Saturday, according to Sahara Reporters.
Buhari is said to have reached out to his wife, who is currently in London, to stop granting further interviews to the media.
In excerpts that have been widely reported in the media, Mrs. Buhari is quoted as saying that the President had ditched those who really worked for his victory in the 2015 election and is instead focusing on those that didn’t participate.
The First Lady also said the President did not know a majority of his ministers before appointing them to office and expressed her concern that certain individuals are creating division within the party.
“What I am afraid for them is the rebellion of 15 million people,” says Mrs. Buhari at the end of the excerpt available to the public.
[Music] Timaya Ft. Iyaz – How Many Times
Sound Bwoy, Timaya Is Definitely On A Row With His “ bang Bang ” Still Having Massive Air Plays And Views, This New Record From The Egberi Papa Just Surfaced Online.
This New Sound Which Is A Leak Is Titled “ how Many Times” And Iyaz Is Featured On This One With Production Credit From Kenny Wonder.
Listen & Download Timaya Ft. Iyaz – How Many Times Below;
You Wont Go Scot-Free – EFCC To Patience Jonathan
A group, the Human Rights Defenders and Advocacy Centre, HRDAC, has asked the Economic and Financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) to change its name and slogan from ‘Nobody is above the law’, since its could not probe and prosecute Patience Jonathan the wife of ex-President Goodluck Jonathan.
This came as the EFCC said that ‘Patience Jonathan will never go scot-free if she is found wanting or any other person no matter how highly placed he or she is.’
EFCC boss Magu and Patience Jonathan The group in a statement, on Wednesday, title, ‘Demand for arrest, prosecution of Patience Jonathan, probe of APC campaign fund and no more sacred cow in the anti-corruption crusade’ signed by Queen Ameh, and Innocent Agbo during a protest at the EFCC office in Ikoyi, Lagos said the EFCC was selective in its anti-graft war, as its also questioned why Patience Jonathan was still walking freely in spite of the evidence the EFCC said its has against her.
”You have found evidence incriminating Patience Jonathan but we are surprised that Patience Jonathan is still allowed to be walking freely, and even had the audacity to take the EFCC to court to demand the release of her money to her.”
The group also said the EFCC should change its slogan from ‘Nobody is above the law’, since it had found it difficult not to only go after Patience, but the likes of ex-Presidents, including Ibrahim Babangida, Abdusalam Abubakar, Olusegun Obasanjo and Goodluck Jonathan.
Agbo during the protest lamented that “I have been to this same EFCC to bail several people over the issue of N500,000 passing through their accounts innocently. They were invited, they came voluntarily and you people held them.
But we have somebody with our money, $15m which is N6bn, walking freely. On Ibrahim Babangida, Abdusalam Abubakar, Olusegun Obasanjo and Goodluck Jonathan.
Agbo said ‘we have the issue of Badamasi Babangida; it is open knowledge that N12bn gulf money was missing under his regime, nothing is done; we are aware of Obasanjo and the $16bn power funds, you people are not investigating it; we are aware of the petition against Amaechi to the EFCC; we are aware that the APC did not get the funds for its election campaign from only Buhari’s account.
We are aware that you are probing the Peoples Democratic Party, why are you not probing the APC?” he questioned The EFCC Deputy Director of Operations, Mr. Iliyasu Kwarbai, speaking with the protesters vowed that if its investigation uncovers evidence of corruption against the wife of former president Goodluck Jonathan, Patience, she would not be left off the hook and that ‘Nobody is above the law’, “Let me tell you, there is no sacred cow; anybody who is found wanting, who involves himself or herself in corrupt practices will not be spared.
I have received your petition, it is here and what do we do? We go into investigation immediately.
Now we have seen the name of Patience Jonathan; it is here. If she is found wanting, she will never go scot-free.
So also any other person no matter how highly placed he is. “We must sanitise our country and provide a very good environment that people can come and invest in; an economy that is devoid of any economic and financial crime.
So, we are happy to see you here; we have received it and we are going to go into action. I am going to inform my chairman that you were here and that we’ll commence investigation immediately.”
4 Main Reasons Why Buhari Is Visiting Germany Today
Starting today, October 13, President Muhammadu Buhari will be leaving Nigeria for his visit to Germany till October 16.
This is the second time since his 2015 visit to Germany to attend the G-7 meeting, accompanied by a 20-person delegation including former Governor Babatunde Fashola of Lagos State.
This visit which begins today is scheduled to end on October 16, 2016. Below are the reasons for the visit:
1. Security
Following his visit with Angela Merkel, President Buhari will meet with President Joachim Gauck to discuss how to attract foreign investment to Nigeria.
Femi Adesina said in his statement: “Thereafter, the President, who will be accompanied by Governors Kashim Shettima of Borno State and Rochas Okorocha of Imo and representatives of the National Assembly, will meet with Federal President Joachim Gauck.”
It is important to note that in February 2016, Mr Joachim Gauck visited Governor Akinwunmi Ambode of Lagos state, pledging that Germany will assist Nigeria with the technical know- how to successfully fight terrorism. This will also be part of the discussion with President Buhari.
2. Nigerians in Germany
Before returning to Abuja on October 16, President Buhari will round up his visit by meeting with representatives of the Nigerian community in Germany.
This will help to deepen relations with Germany and build on the very cordial relations both countries enjoy in several areas of bilateral cooperation including the fight against terrorism, economic relations, rebuilding of the North east, support for IDPs, vocational training, energy partnership and cultural relations.
The visit hopefully will have a hugely positive impact on Nigeria, its security and economy.
3. Cooperation between two nations
One of the aims of the visit is to meet with German Chancellor, Angela Merkel on issues that border on better cooperation between Germany and Nigeria.
Femi Adesina, the special adviser on media and publicity to the president had this to say about that part of the visit:
“The president will confer with Chancellor Angela Merkel on issues of shared interests between Nigeria and Germany, including further cooperation on security, the humanitarian situation of Internally Displaced Persons (IDPs) and rehabilitation of the North-East, as well as trade and economic relations between both countries.”
The problems of IDPs, Boko Haram attacks and the economic recession are ones Nigeria will find hard to solve without support, this will feature prominently in the discussions between the two heads of state.
4. Foreign investment
The forth objective of the trip is stated thus by Adesina:
“In furtherance of the administration’s objective to attract more foreign investment and create economic opportunities in the country, President Buhari will participate in a Business Forum in Berlin with leading German companies already active in Nigeria and other prospective investors.”
The Business forum in Berlin will likely include companies like Siemens, a multinational technology company in Nigeria and several others.
The visit hopefully will have a hugely positive impact on Nigeria, its security and economy.
Breaking News: Boko Haram Released 21 Chibok Girls
At least 21 Chibok girls that were abducted by the dreaded Boko Haram terrorist group have reportedly been released.
According to Sahara Reporters , the girls were released in the early hours of Thursday, October 13.
More than 200 girls were abducted from their schools in Borno state in 2014 by the terrorists and while some of them had reportedly died, the rest remained held by the terror group.
Sources disclosed that the girls were picked up by military helicopter from Banki area of Borno state where Boko Haram militants dropped them off earlier on Thursday.
The release of the 21 girls came as President Buhari began a three-day trip to Germany to discuss assistance for the rebuilding of the northeastern part of Nigeria which has for years been ravaged by Boko Haram.
The names of the girls released were however not disclosed.
Senior Special Adviser to President Muhammadu Buhari on media and publicity, Shehu Garba confirmed the release on his twitter handle on Thursday.
Naij said that the girls's release would be "cheering news not only for their parents but also for many Nigerians who day and night have prayed for their safe return".
Janet Jackson Flaunts Baby Bump At Age 50 And She Looks So Amazing
American singer, Janet Jackson has confirmed she is pregnant with her first child with billionaire husband, Wissam Al Mana.
The 50-year-old singer exclusively confirmed that she’s expecting and shared photos of her baby bump. “We thank God for our blessing,” she said.
“She is super excited about her pregnancy and is doing extremely well,” a source close to the Jackson family told People. “She actually feels very good about everything.”
The latest issue of People magazine with more of Ms Jackson prepping for motherhood hit news stands on Friday.
Wednesday, 12 October 2016
[Music] Kcee Ft. Tekno – Tender (Prod. By Mystro)
Five star front man Kcee teams up with the man with the song of the moment ‘Pana’,
Tekno , for this new single titled ‘Tender ”.The mid tempo song was produced by talented artiste Mystro.
Listen & Download “Kcee Ft. Tekno – Tender (Prod. By Mystro)” Below;
Waku wants judiciary sanitised, Obasanjo probed
Joseph Waku, a former senator representing Benue North-West Senatorial District, has praised the Federal Government for looking into the deep corruption existing in the judiciary.
He praised them for the act and told them to extend it to the regime of a former president of the Federation, Olusegun Obasanjo.
Below is what Maku said in an interview yesterday with newsmen.
“We need to sanitise our judiciary; if the arm of government that we know is the last hope of the common man is enmeshed in corruption, then where lies the hope of the commoners?
This is why I strongly support the clampdown on the judiciary, provided it is not a witch-hunt, but one aspect I object to is the manner of arrest, I think the law provides the way of arresting suspected corrupt persons. You have to invite the suspect and if he fails to respond to your invitation then you adopt minimum force. Continue…
“But swooping on suspects as if they have already been pronounced criminals is tantamount to criminality on the part of the security operatives.
“Imagine, security operatives invading judge’s house with maximum force, what do you think would have happened if the security men attached to the judge reacted negatively?
“The consequence would have been grave. So, that is why I strongly object to the method of the arrest, let them be civil in their approach.
“I strongly support the fight against corruption especially in the judiciary, because the perception of people on this arm of government is that there is a lot of rot there. Let the noise not die like that, those accused should be taken to court for prosecution and if found guilty should be convicted and punished.”
Waku also called on President Muhammadu Buhari to extend his anti-corruption fight to former President Olusegun Obasanjo’s regime.
He said, “The corruption fight of Buhari will be meaningful if he can extend it to Obasanjo, corruption is not only when you take bribe or embezzle our commonwealth, election rigging is also corruption or using your office to conscript people to donate to your personal thing is corruption.”
When asked whether his hatred for Obasanjo was not responsible for his call for his prosecution, Waku said no.
“No! If you have personal contact with Obasanjo, you will know that he his humorous, I like him as a person, and besides, he is my elder, he was my commander in chief for 11 years. I cannot inherit anything from him, he cannot also inherit anything from me, Chief Obasanjo is a great man, there is no doubt about that.
“But the fact remains, let him be probed, it may even serve as a blessing to him, if his administration is probed and he is eventually found innocent, that will exonerate him from the eyes of the public and to some of us, Obasanjo remains the most … president Nigeria ever had until proven otherwise.”
[Music] Tmaze X Reekado Banks – Hey Stranger
This must be the best cover ever. Tmaze is here with Reekado Banks on a new jam titled “ Hey Stranger” cover. You will surely love this. Enjoy.
Listen & Download “Tmaze X Reekado Banks – Hey Stranger” below:-
I Cried Three Times A Week,- Ice Prince Reveals
Nigerian rapper & Singer, Ice Prince is no doubt one of Nigeria’s most successful names in music industry today.
Speaking in a radio interview with Soundcity radio 98.5 with Moet Abebe, the former Choc City rapper revealed that he cries at least three times a week.
He revealed that he cries every time he remembers all God has done for him each time he prays, especially how he moved from obscurity to prominence.
The rapper further announced that he’s working on new materials and the fans should get ready for Ice Prince season.
Presidency Reveales How Over 200,000 Unemployed Graduates Will Get Jobs Before End Of The Month.
The V.P has revealed yesterday 11 Oct 2016 that the implementation plans for the effective commencement of a number of the social investment programmes has reached advanced stages for the selection of the first 200,000 unemployed graduates to get jobs.
While speaking with a small group of radio journalists and producers at the Presidential Villa Abuja, on Tuesday, Vice President Yemi Osinbajo, said that the implementation plans for the effective commencement of a number of the social investment programmes has reached advanced stages as the selection of the first 200,000 unemployed graduates to get jobs is now being completed.
According to Premium Times, the VP said that:-
“we expect that before the end of the month, we will engage 200,000,” out of the 500,000 unemployed graduates the Buhari administration plans to hire in the N-Power jobs programme.
He revealed that the direct government jobs is meant “to keep this young people occupied, pay them some amount of money and also give them a device, which will also help them to learn several skills that they can develop as time goes on.”
“we expect that before the end of this month, we should have engaged 200,000 of them and we are hoping that before the end of the year we should have engaged more.”
Speaking further, the former Lagos state commissioner of justice, disclosed that the Home-Grown School Feeding programme is set to kick off in several states this month.
“Definitely before the end of this month, we expect that several states would have come on stream with their Home-grown School Feeding Programmes,” the Vice President noted.
He added that the Home-Grown School Feeding programme “will energise agriculture in the different states because it is what you plant that you feed the children with, we will be hiring caterers, cooks, etc in each state because it will be Federal Government funded from Primaries 1-3 and the state governments hopefully would be able to cater for the other classes.”
According to the Vice President, the Home-Grown School Feeding programme is another section of the Social Investment programmes that impact directly on the lives of Nigerian children and families. He said several states will start implementing the Home-grown School Feeding Programme before the end of October.
Monday, 10 October 2016
[Music] Davido Ft. Simi – Maga To Mugu
Listen & Download “Davido Ft. Simi – Maga To Mugu” below:-
For Guys- 4 Signs To Know A lady Is In Love But Just Want to Play Hard To Get
In todays world it happens Sometimes a lady may be crushing heavily on you but will not want to come across as cheap. These are certain signs to expose her.
So you found a girl who really gets your attention. But one thing that you notice is that she seems kind of out of it, like she doesn’t really want your attention. Or does she? Let’s face it: Attractive women get a lot of attention and are approached all the time by men.
They are often far too subtle and indirect — or just plain confusing — when revealing their romantic interest; therefore, they need quick, easy ways to figure out if you’re either a self-confident guy who can see through their games or just another wuss that easily gives up at the first sign of resistance.
For a woman, playing hard to get is a game that is meant to drive men crazy yet keep them coming back for more. The trouble comes when guys don’t know if a woman is playing hard to get or is just genuinely not interested in interacting with them. So with that in mind, here are 4 signs she’s playing hard to get.
1. She tests you to see how long you’ll chase her
You’ve gotten her number, but when you dial her digits, all you get is her answering machine. A couple of days pass, you call her again and she happens to answer the phone, apologizing for not having called you earlier because she was busy. She always has a full schedule (or pretends that she does). So what’s the real reason why didn’t she call you when she had the chance? It may be because she wants to be pursued, but doesn’t want to look too available.
If you call a woman to set up a date with her, she may tell you that she is busy that particular night, to call her next week when her schedule is not as hectic. Doing this shows she’s interested in going out with you, but containing her eagerness. She may even agree to go out with you on a certain night and then at the last minute, calls and cancels to reschedule. Although this is a risky move on her part, she may be checking to see how you will take the bad news and if you are still really interested in going out with her.
2. She flirts like crazy, then stops
A woman who is playing hard to get will seemingly want to know everything about you i.e., quiz you about your family, your background, and your tastes in things like food, music and movies, then abruptly change the subject by moving the conversation elsewhere. More than likely, what she’s doing is trying to catalog your interests so that she can slowly bond with you when she’s ready.
3. She talks about other guys you don’t know
Another sign a woman is playing hard to get is when she brings up co-workers from work or male friends and makes light conversations on how cute or funny they are in order to ignite a little jealously and make you work harder for her attention.
4. She teases you, then pulls away
If she smiles when you check her out, plays with her hair, leans toward you while talking and briefly stares into your eyes with passion to build up tension, then suddenly breaks away when you move in for the kiss or some neck action, she may well be playing hard to get and trying to see how hard you’ll really work for her affection.
Playing hard to get is part of the dating game, not to mention the part that makes it fun; however, if she has your number, but is busy all the time and continuously makes no attempt to keep the window of possibility open with you, she’s not playing hard to get–she’s just not interested in you.
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