It is no news that we are in an era where women are no longer respected because of the way they throw themselves at men.
There are so many bad eggs in the society, this has made most of the men think women are the same and can be treated as one.
We do not need to sing or chant the praises of women before you know how important they are in the society. The roles they play can never be over-emphasized irrespective of the things they do.
It is disheartening to know that many men have little or no regard for the women in their lives due to their past experiences. Some women in truth do not know how to comport themselves in a gathering.
They end up doing silly things that will make the world abuse the gender and what they stand for. No matter how much people rant for change, women will continue to be abused until they stand up and prove themselves as dignified entities.
You do not fight for respect after all, you earn it! If you want to be treated differently from the girls flocking the streets, then you have to act differently. Add a twist to your life and personality and those who meet you will respect you.
If you do any of the things below as a woman, no man will respect you:
1. You are a puppet
If you do not have a mind of your own as a woman, no man will respect you. No one is asking you to be stubborn and defiant when being talked to; however, there are ways you can express your opinion without stepping on toes.
Men appreciate women who have minds of their own and can take decisions without being pushed around.
2. When you do not have a life of your own
There are so many women in the society who live based on people’s instructions. They have no life plans and cannot tell which direction to turn.
Unfortunately, many of these women are being led astray as they succumb to peer pressure most times. Men have little or no regard for women who do not have life plans and goals. They see them as chaff that could be blown away.
3. When you are a drunk
Honestly, that is the height of being irresponsible. How can you expect a man to respect you when the other ladies around cannot praise you for your actions? No man will speak highly of a woman who is a drunk.
There is simply no way you can be respected when you cannot caution yourself when you drink. You know what you have to do if you are found wanting in this situation.
4. When you are loose
Men will always be men; if you think you are dancing to their tunes by doing the things you do, you may end up being a joker.
As much as a man will want to get down with you on a first date, you have to be self-disciplined. If you jump into his bed without hesitation, you have failed the first test of chastity.
5. When you have lots of tales about your ex
Some things are worth burying in the past. Even though transparency is a key element in relationships, you have to cut out certain things.
No man will respect if you keep replaying the soiled parts of the failed affair.
How exactly do you want him to accord you any respect when he has known all there is to know about you? Add a little mystery to your life.
6. When you pretend
No one can do you like you! There is dignity in being real. You do not have to pretend to be someone you are not because you want some guy to like you.
Men will appreciate you more when they know how principled you are. Do not be afraid to show them your imperfections, we are all flawed after all.
7. When you are not ladylike
There are no two ways to put this, if you actions cannot reflect the lady in you, you are as good as lost. Men love and respect women who are represent the gender in every way. They admire them the more when they record successes in their chosen fields. They want to see the lady in you irrespective of how independent you have become.
8. When you are a liar and a flirt
No one respects a liar and a flirt, there is no way you can make a man respect you if you do any of these two things.
You cannot be seen frolicking with men and expect that you will be praised by them.
Even when you have lots of guys as friends, you should be able to draw a limit. Be known for whom you are, avoid lying as this can paint you the wrong way.
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